The first day of Chinese New Year was spent with Richard's parents and his second sister, Mary. We had Japanese food for lunch and a quiet dinner. After dinner, Richard played mahjong with his parents and then we took them out for a quick supper before going home.
Here's a Youtube video (2:13 minutes long) taken on the second day of Chinese New Year, of Ryan and Richard dancing around. We had just opened his birthday present from Mary. Ryan asked to wear the gift wrap as a cape, and so we put it on him. He proceeded to dance and jump around in it, chuckling and giggling. Simple pleasures.
For lunch, we drove to Ampang to pay Richard's uncle a visit, together with Richard's parents and Mary. We do this every Chinese New Year. There is always a massive lunch waiting for us, all homecooked. The wine is home brewed, the chicken is home reared and the fruits for dessert are grown in their garden. Last year, they even prepared homemade yee sang (this year we didn't have any yee sang).
After lunch, we went home, packed up and set off on a two hour drive north to Ipoh. We go back to Ipoh every year because most of my relatives are there.
Ipoh is in a valley formed by limestone hills and the drive up is very scenic.
Ipoh has a very comfortable feeling to it. Mixed with the modern shopping malls, you can still find a lot of old businesses and trades there. These are the street lamps that are found all over the city. Aren't they charming?
We arrived in good time to check in at the hotel and go for an early dinner, which was the famous "nga choy kai" or "beansprouts and chicken" at Lou Wong. Extremely satisfying. The rest of the evening was spent at my second uncle's house.
The next day (Wednesday), it was off to my third uncle's place which is nestled at the foot of the hills in Tambun. Very picturesque.
After lunch, most people settled down for some blackjack. Here you can see three generations of people crowded around the table.
The expert gamblers' game of choice was mahjong. That's my third uncle, my second uncle's wife and Richard playing three-kaki mahjong.
Ryan had a minor upset when we first got there. He doesn't like people coming up to him and looking at him as if he is under a microscope, especially if they are also talking to him in loud voices, which unfortunately was what happened. Everyone was excited to see him and was fawning over him and talking to him excitedly. He just hated it and got upset. I took him into one of the bedrooms and gave him his Noddy Funbook so that he had something to focus on and so that he could tune out everything else. He was relaxed after a while and when I brought him back into the living/dining area, he was happy to see everyone and warmed up quickly, proceeding to play happily with my cousins. My uncle has a miniature schnauzer, like our dog Max, and Ryan was also happy to play with her.
The evening was set aside for my family's yearly reunion dinner. Despite starting the dinner in a slightly grouchy mood (because I roused him prematurely from his nap), Ryan regained his good spirits quickly.
This photo was taken by my cousin, Amanda. I "lifted" it from her Facebook.
The dinner was very long, we finished at nearly 11 pm because we were karaoke-ing at the same time! We actually told the restaurant to serve the courses slowly because everyone was having so much fun! Young and old, everyone had a go, and it was a rowdy, fun night. After dinner, my uncles and aunts adjourned to a nightclub to continue their fun, but we decided to go back to the hotel and rest.
My ex-schoolmates had their reunion in Ipoh the same night. I regretfully had to give that a miss. I arranged to meet up with some of them in KL over the weekend instead.
The next day (Thursday) was filled with more eating and more relaxing. We had lunch at my second uncle's house and spent the rest of the day there. Richard played mahjong, while I just hung out with Ryan and my cousins. Dinner was at a restaurant nearby, famous for its freshwater fish and other seafood.
In the morning (Friday), we woke up early to drive to Menglembu together with some of my relatives for the famous noodles. I realised I didn't take any photos of myself this Chinese New Year so I quickly snapped one in the hotel room mirror - hello!
I don't know the name of the famous noodle restaurant, but it was packed with people even though it had just opened for the day. The food was amazingly good, as is most food in Ipoh and well worth the drive. Snapped this shot as we were leaving - you'll never see cows lounging by the road in Singapore!
We left Ipoh after that, to go back to KL. Here's a parting shot - you can see Colonel Sanders on the side of a limestone hill.
Before I get to the last leg of our Chinese New Year holiday in Malaysia, I thought I'd do a separate post on the reunion meetup with my secondary school mates in Ipoh.
I schooled in an all-girls school in Ipoh for four years and made some pretty strong friendships which have lasted through the years. Some of my mates have stayed on and built their lives in Ipoh, while others are now in KL, Johore and various places overseas, including Singapore, Hong Kong and Riyadh.
I don't get to see much of them but everytime we get together, time falls away and it's as if it was just yesterday that we were in our school pinafores. We call ourselves "budakkampung" which, in Malay, means kampung kids. We were all part of the same uniformed group - the 5th Ipoh Coy (girl guides) - and I was the coy leader. We spent all our time together, in and outside of school. So many memories in those four years - camping trips, dance/sketch performances, inter-coy/troop meetups, teenage parties, tea dances, boyfriends, secret crushes, gangfights (not us, the boys), overnight stays at each others' houses, studying together for exams, going on travels together - it was a fantastic four years for me.
It was a difficult time for me at first because my family split up geographically and only my brother and I came to Ipoh. My life, as I knew it then, had completely disappeared. So you could say that I lost one family but gained another.
In many ways, I was an outsider, as I moved to Ipoh when I was in Form 2 (in Singapore it's called Secondary 2) and most of these girls already knew each other from primary school. Yet they accepted me with open arms and shared everything with me, as if I'd been there from the very beginning. They never made me feel as if I had to prove myself or as if I had to earn my place in the group. I left Ipoh after sitting for my SPM (equivalent to "O" levels) in Form 5, when I won a scholarship to come to Singapore. Most of my mates stayed on to do their STPM ("A" levels). So I was the last to join the group and the first to leave the nest. My time with them was short yet I've always felt a strong connection to these ladies. We're bound by history and genuine love.
All of us try to make it home to our families in Ipoh for Chinese New Year so we usually arrange a meet up or two for ourselves as well. Not everyone can make it every year, but what we lose out in member numbers is usually made up with "mini budakkampungs", ie. our children! This year, there was a meetup on Friday afternoon and one on Saturday afternoon. I went for the one on Saturday, after getting back from Uncle Peter's place. Here are some photos (taken by Kar Yee and Cathryn).
A few of the budakkampung
We gathered at Strawberry Moment at de Garden
Ryan in his Gong Xi Fa Cai top (a birthday gift from Ting Shern)
Here's what we did for the Ipoh-leg of our Chinese New Year break.
The morning before we left for Ipoh, we had a walk around the new shopping mall next to our condo. The mall is huge but it's so new that more than half of its units are empty so there wasn't much to see. We popped into one of the little cafes for lunch.
My choice - mushroom chicken noodles - yum yum
Chicken chop for Richard. Ryan is stealing the fries.
After that we started our drive up north to Ipoh. The drive up is pretty scenic. Ipoh is located in the middle of the Kinta Valley in the midst of limestone hills so apart from the usual greenery that you see all along the North-South highway, you see a lot more hills.
Ipoh is where my mother's family is based. Her parents (my grandparents) brought up nine children in Ipoh and four of those children still live in Ipoh. I love going back to Ipoh for Chinese New Year, because I get to see most of my relatives then. Three of my grandmother's children live overseas (including my mother) so I don't always get to see those family members but we still have a good crowd. We need at least three round tables, sometimes four, for our reunion dinner and it's pretty great to see four generations at the dinner (my grandmother has seven great grandchildren with more to come).
The drive was pretty smooth, we made it in a little more than an hour and a half. We checked into a hotel when we arrived, rested for a while and, for dinner, we went over to Uncle Daniel's house. His wife, Aunty Sharon, is an amazing cook so it is always a pleasure to eat at their house. My brother was already there (he drove up from PJ a couple of days prior) but he was leaving after dinner to make a round trip to the KL airport to pick up my mum who was flying in from Sydney.
After dinner, some more relatives came over so we hung around, chatted and played mahjong till about midnight.
The next morning, we gathered with my relatives again and drove out for brunch near the stadium. Lots of great hawker fare - wantan mee, pork noodles, chee cheong fun, rojak, curry noodles, ban mian, etc. After we ate our fill, everyone drove over to Uncle Peter's place. The adults sat around, chatted and played mahjong while the teenagers went go-karting. We and my mum went with Uncle Daniel and Aunty Sharon to check out a showhouse nearby - a new townhouse development that was being launched.
After that, it was back to the hotel for a rest before the reunion dinner. Like last year, the dinner was held at Royal China, which was next to our hotel so we just walked over. The food was excellent so, although it was a little pricey, I think it was worth the price.
After dinner, we all gathered again at Uncle Daniel's house as usual. His house is usually the headquarters during Chinese New Year.
3-kaki mahjong
My grandmother
My aunty Maureen
Everyone was having so much fun that it was 2 am before anyone wanted to leave. We went back to the hotel, exhausted but happy.
We woke up very late the next morning, missed breakfast, packed up and went straight to check out, while Ryan went to have a look at the rabbits in the hotel lobby. There was a small rabbit house with about 6 small rabbits, which the hotel had for the Chinese New Year (Year of the Rabbit).
Happy Rabbit Year!
We went for lunch at Lou Wong. This is the very famous "tauge ayam" dish, which consists of steamed white chicken, served with noodles, which you can have dry or with soup. You can also order beansprouts and meatballs as side dishes. I highly recommend this - we always make a point to stop by for a meal everytime we are in Ipoh.
Overflowing with customers
I highly recommend the noodles with soup - the soup is too yummy to resist
Check out the beansprouts - fat and crunchy!
Both of them enjoying their lunch!
After that thoroughly satisfying meal, we drove over to Uncle Daniel's house to say goodbye before starting our drive back south to KL/PJ. Wish that we could have stayed longer!
We spent the next few days in KL/PJ and headed back to Singapore on Tuesday night. Will share what we did in KL/PJ in the next post!
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