Showing posts with label HappyPlayWonder. Show all posts
Showing posts with label HappyPlayWonder. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 19, 2013

I'm at HappyPlayWonder today


After all my posts on parenting siblings, I think it's time to get back to the usual family posts about things that we've been up to. There's been a lot happening around here lately and hence, a lot of blogging to catch up on. The thing about writing about parenting is that, each post takes a long time to put together and after each post, I usually get a number of emails asking further questions. I am perfectly happy to share and discuss parenting issues and I love hearing from readers, so I'm certainly not complaining. It does, nevertheless, affect the "normal" blogging, so the next few posts are going to be a *little* outdated.

The first post I want to share with you all is actually not on this blog, heh heh. I'm posting over at HappyPlayWonder today, so do pop over there for a look. I wrote about Ryan doing a Lollibox with the theme "My Veggie Farm". It was a gift from his friend, Victoria (a total of 3 boxes in all) earlier this year.

More updates to come over the next few posts! Before I go for now, I wanted to share this event with you all - disco for kids at Zouk! The event is called ZOUKIDISCO! It's a day-time dance party for parents and their children from 1-9 years old. It's going to be held this Sunday, 24 November 2013 at Velvet Underground. We've got tickets for the second session from 4.30-6.30 pm. The first session is from 2-4 pm. Tickets are at $8 per pax and each ticket includes one standard non-alcoholic beverage. Are you going? We'll be there with our dancing shoes on!

I still have some emails to reply to, so if you've written to me, I'll be responding soon!

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Maths for Ryan

Recently, I re-started Ryan's math work. I re-looked the activities that I offered to Ryan and I tried to understand why a particular activity may or may not convey the intended lesson. Take, for example, the basic counting exercise - present some items or a picture of some items to the child and ask him to count the items. This is a typical activity and I'm sure that you see it all the time.

I had initially thought that if Ryan could count off seven items where there were seven items, that meant that he understood seven as a quantity. I was wrong. Chanting one to seven in such a situation was merely rote counting. Simply rattling off the numbers in sequence does not mean that he learns quantity. In the way that he recited one, two, three, four, to seven as he pointed to each item, he could have equally have recited do, re, mi, fa, so, la, ti, do. Or red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet. Or something even more random - Peter, Paul, Mary, Joseph, Ryan, Richard, Rachel. You get what I mean?



When I taught Ryan to add, I would show him the process, for example, that 2+ 3 meant that we count two items, then we count three items, then we count them altogether. Ryan is very methodical - you just have to show him a process and he will follow it faithfully. As he managed to get the correct answer this way, we continued to tackle all sorts of sums this way and he could do them, no problem. So I thought he could add. But nope, I was wrong. He was just following the process without understanding its meaning. There was no understanding that he was adding two quantities together to form a bigger quantity.

When I taught him to subtract, I showed him that 5-2 meant that we took away two items from a pile of five items and then counted the remainder. He could do that too. So I thought he could subtract. But nope. Once again, I was wrong. Again, he was just applying the process. 



Perhaps you think I'm being too fussy. After all, if he got the sums right, then what's the problem? Well, it's not good enough because, this way, he doesn't learn about quantity. This means that, if he could not apply the same process that he had been using, he would be stuck. He would not be able to figure out other ways to solve the problem if he did not understand the concept that we were adding quantities.

Let me give you an illustration. I first introduced numbers and counting to Ryan a few years ago and when he could count, I introduced the concept of more and less. It took him a long time to understand what I was getting at when I asked him: is 7 more than 5? To him, it was as if I was asking him, is B more than T? or is red more than blue? To him, 7 was simply the word that comes after 6, just like Tuesday comes after Monday. At that time, I didn't realise why he found it difficult, I just thought that he needed some practice - looking back, this is nonsense. It's not about practice, it's about understanding the basic concept of quantity. 

Once, I asked him what is 5 minus 5? It took him a long, long time before he could answer. The question truly confounded him and, seeing him struggle with that question, I was dumbfounded myself. That's when I knew for certain that I had missed something out.



It took me some time to figure out the root of the problem. I spent a long time thinking about how we've been doing math. I referenced lots of material, especially the mathematics module in the Montessori teacher training course which I completed earlier this year. I tried to understand how children learn math and what the important concepts were. And so I realised where I went wrong.

Ever since then, I've been more conscious of how I structure our math activities. I give a bit more thought to, not just the mechanics of the activity, but I also critically analyse the effectiveness of the activity in delivering the lesson. 

And so, to be safe and to plug any gaps, we are starting over with our math. The way I look at it, we are taking one step back so that we can take two steps forward later. At this point, I don't know which concepts are weak and which are strong, so I'm just going to do everything, step by step. If I see that he understands the concept already, we will skip ahead to the next one.

 

In the photos in this post, Ryan is working on activities similar to Montessori's spindle box and Montessori's number rods. These reinforce several concepts including quantity. I am also posting over at HappyPlayWonder today about an activity on quantities - click here to have a look! 

Have you seen this from Cheeky Britches Facebook page? Rachel appears on the left column, in the middle!


That's the same photo I sent to Cheeky Britches in January this year when I bought that outfit. She's grown a bit since then, huh?


In other news, I am posting over at HappyPlayWonder today! Click on over and have a peek! I wrote about Ryan learning ordinals and positions, for example, fifth from the left and eighth from the right. It's a very simple activity to set up at home and on-the-go!

I hope you have been enjoying HappyPlayWonder! It's been a lot of fun working on it with Shann and Alicia, and it's nice to know that our children have shared memories. If you'd like to see little snippets of our days, do "like" our Facebook page for updates there!

Have a great weekend!

Friday, August 9, 2013

Introducing HappyPlayWonder!

Hello, everyone! How did you spend Singapore's National Day? We went to Legoland with Alicia's family. Ryan had such a great time with his pal, Brayden! I will share more about our day in another post!

You may have noticed that posting here has been quite light recently. That's because I've been working with Alicia and Shann on a new blog! We're finally ready to launch it, so here it is - it's called HappyPlayWonder!

The blog is meant to be a one-year project, while Shann and family are away in the USA. Each of us - Alicia, Shann and I - will be sharing a simple activity that Brayden, Rou Ern and Ryan have been enjoying. In addition, we will be sharing some photos of the friends in the HPW Album, like this one taken on Shann's birthday last year when we had a tiny surprise celebration for her!


I love this shot because it shows the three childen exactly as they are - Rou Ern enjoys her food, Brayden is always exploring, and Ryan is always looking on and going with the flow. You'll see them like this in the next photo too!


The primary purpose of HappyPlayWonder is to help keep in touch with each other - we spend nearly everyday discussing stuff about the blog! It's nice to have something to share! Also, the three little ones love to look at each other's photos and so HappyPlayWonder is a recognition of the bond and the friendship that they share.

Do hop on over to HappyPlayWonder for a look-see and let us know what you think! We also have a Facebook page for sharing little snippets as well as for easier interaction! It's a brand new page, so not much there yet - do "like" our page for updates!


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