Monday, August 12, 2013

Legoland on Singapore National Day

Last Friday, which was Singapore's National Day, we drove up to Legoland Malaysia with Alicia and family. The boys were delighted! Nothing much to say for this post, except that it was a wonderful day and that Chris, Alicia and Brayden were great company. Enjoy the photos!





















Friday, August 9, 2013

Introducing HappyPlayWonder!

Hello, everyone! How did you spend Singapore's National Day? We went to Legoland with Alicia's family. Ryan had such a great time with his pal, Brayden! I will share more about our day in another post!

You may have noticed that posting here has been quite light recently. That's because I've been working with Alicia and Shann on a new blog! We're finally ready to launch it, so here it is - it's called HappyPlayWonder!

The blog is meant to be a one-year project, while Shann and family are away in the USA. Each of us - Alicia, Shann and I - will be sharing a simple activity that Brayden, Rou Ern and Ryan have been enjoying. In addition, we will be sharing some photos of the friends in the HPW Album, like this one taken on Shann's birthday last year when we had a tiny surprise celebration for her!


I love this shot because it shows the three childen exactly as they are - Rou Ern enjoys her food, Brayden is always exploring, and Ryan is always looking on and going with the flow. You'll see them like this in the next photo too!


The primary purpose of HappyPlayWonder is to help keep in touch with each other - we spend nearly everyday discussing stuff about the blog! It's nice to have something to share! Also, the three little ones love to look at each other's photos and so HappyPlayWonder is a recognition of the bond and the friendship that they share.

Do hop on over to HappyPlayWonder for a look-see and let us know what you think! We also have a Facebook page for sharing little snippets as well as for easier interaction! It's a brand new page, so not much there yet - do "like" our page for updates!


Monday, August 5, 2013

Weekend update

Our weekend was less eventful than our previous one, except ... and this is a big "except" ... Richard and I went to watch Pet Shop Boys in concert! Woohoo!

Yes, you read that right, Pet Shop Boys. Ahem.

Some of you can't tell if I'm being sarcastic? I haven't decided either. Heh. No, no, I do like their music and it was a superb concert. The band was here to promote their new album, Electric, but they played enough of their golden oldies to keep everyone happy, ending the night with, what else, West End Girls. Actually, Richard is their faithful fan. He has every single album, which means that I have also heard all their music by default. We were definitely among the hard-core fan(atics) chanting "All day all day/Watch them all fall down/All day all day/Domino dancing" and when it came time to sing "Go West", we marched along with the best of them.



We dropped off the littles at their nanny's before the concert and picked them up after. Took them for supper, which was actually dinner for Richard and me, because the traffic was so bad that we didn't have time for dinner before the concert. By the time we got everyone home, it was close to midnight. Everyone went to la-la land pretty quickly. Richard and I were exhausted, having been on our feet for nearly two hours at the concert (we were moshing right in front of the stage!) and it was way past bedtime for the littles.

That was Saturday night. The day was spent in the usual way - Rachel went for Heguru with Richard while I chauffeured Ryan to another class. Richard reported that Rachel spent the whole class near him and did not wander off in search of adventure. Her behaviour was so strikingly different that, after the class, Teacher Rhian asked if Rachel was feeling tired! I'm going to give it a couple more lessons before I declare that she is finally settled in.

Sunday was spent, believe it or not, at the airport. We were at T3 from about 5 to 10 pm! We wanted to bring Ryan to Singkids to give him a workout but the boy fell asleep on the drive there, so we hung about with Rachel while he slept in the stroller. Rachel was happy to walk around the airport, Charlie Chaplin style, charming all the passerbys. I kept having to answer questions about her, mostly about how old she is. Around 7 pm, we decided to have dinner at Gurney Drive. Ryan managed to sleep through that too. When he finally woke up and realised where he was, there was no holding back - we had to stay on for Singkids. Both kids went in, which meant that Rachel had another workout. After that, we still had to feed Ryan his belated dinner. By the time we got home, it was the end of another exhausting day.

Here are some photos from Saturday morning, when we woke up early enough to go for a prata breakfast. Ryan has taken to eating "tissue prata" - he loves it because it is served as a huge cone. We introduced it when he started learning about 3-D shapes so I guess it tied in with his "sensitive period" for learning, as per Montessori teaching. Heh heh, maybe I should think about other types of food which I can introduce according to his sensitive periods!


I wanted to share this series of photos of babydoll, asking for her share of the prata. They're hilarious!

"Give me some, Papa."


"Hey you, what are you doing? I said, give me some!"


"I'm telling you, don't mess around with me!"


"Don't mess with the best, cos the best don't mess!"


Haha, babydoll is usually very ladylike and girly, so it was really quite amusing to capture these photos! (to clarify - the third shot in the series was a fluke shot. She wasn't actually threatening me!)

Friday, August 2, 2013

Posting and Slotting


In the latest update on Rachel, I wrote about "posting" or "slotting" activities. I thought I'd share a couple of these today. 

When Rachel was about six months old, she was just starting to post stuff. Before that, she would rather take stuff out of containers and drawers, rather than put stuff in. When I noticed she was ready, I encouraged her to pass me stuff and we would make a game out of it. This way, she practiced aiming where the item should end up and she also practiced letting go of the item. So we would play simple games, eg. I would pass her a small ball and she would pass it back to me, and I would pass it on again. We started with rolling a ball back and forth, and then progressed to picking up a smaller ball or object and placing the object in the other's hand or just passing it along for the other to grab. The point was to get her to let go of the object, and reassure her that the object would return.



From there, we graduated to placing the item into a container. The container and the item don't have to be the same shape - this is a very basic activity for very young children. Just place or drop the item into the container. That's it. I know it sounds almost too simple, but if you have a six month old who is still grasping the concept of letting go, you will know where I'm coming from. At this stage, they are reluctant to relinquish possession of the item. Don't force your child, just show him/her how it's done, and when he/she understands that it's ok to "lose" the item, it will happen.

Ok, with that, move on to using different items and different "slots". For items, progress from larger to smaller items, so that she progresses from using the whole hand to using the pincer grasp. For containers, progress from containers with wide openings to containers with smaller openings, and ultimately to containers with openings that need precision posting. Try to get your child to post with his/her right hand and also with his/her left hand.



Bear in mind that we are not doing matching at this point. These activities are simply for posting. When your child is ready, you can show her how to do matching activities, eg. put the star-shaped item into the star-shaped slot.

You might be thinking that you don't have to do this - the children eventually learn anyway. That's absolutely true. I'm not telling you that you need to do this. I'm merely offering you some ideas if you need inspiration for games to play with your baby at this stage. Posting/slotting is an experience that babies around this age enjoy, so you can consider offering them these sort of activities.

Ok, here you can see Rachel posting pom-poms into a Munchkin snack container. See how delighted she was!


Pom-poms are good to use because you can lay a pom-pom on top of the hole and it will just sit there until your child pushes the pom-pom such that it squeezes through. Your child is naturally encouraged to use his/her fingers. The other advantage of pom-poms is that Rachel doesn't seem inclined to eat them so I don't have to watch her like a hawk when she does this activity. You can also use cotton balls if you want something similar. Having said that, I've used a variety of other items of all sorts of shapes and sizes, it really doesn't matter, actually.



I bought these pom-poms from Spotlight. I think it was S$3 a packet with a good mix of colours and sizes. I bought them in primary colours so that I will be able to re-use them again when Rachel progresses to colours. Rachel doesn't put these in her mouth but if your child is working with small items, please supervise them!

The container is a Munchkin snack container. Please don't bother to buy a container for this. I have used a food container with a small hole cut out on the lid. I have used a toilet paper cardboard roll. I have used our existing toys with holes (see further below). There are countless options. I have even used my finger and thumb to form a circle.

The only reason I used the Munchkin snack container here was so that I had some place to store the pom-poms after she was done. This way, I don't have to clean anything up! When I offer the activity to Rachel, I leave the pom-poms out and the container next to them, on the shelf or on the floor. If she is in the mood for the activity, she will go to the set up and do the activity. After she is done, she will go off.



I may not be with her when she does this activity; I may be with Ryan or she may be with Richard. In any case, as you can see, she is pretty focused and doesn't need me. She also comes up with her own versions of this activity. The shelf where I leave this out has some other toys and stuff, so sometimes I walk up to the area to find the pom-poms all posted into a different vessel!


As mentioned above, Rachel gets a good fine motor workout from picking up and handling the items.



Another version of posting/slotting. This toy comes with a hammer to hammer the pegs down. Here I removed all the pegs and Rachel is slotting the pegs back into the holes. She's pretty good at it already. I bought this toy for Ryan many years ago from a bookstore sale. I think you can get a similar one from IKEA.

This is slightly different because she is not aiming with her fingers, but more with her hand, while holding the peg in the right position firmly with her fingers. Check out her intense concentration!



Combined the pom-poms with the toy for some variety!




We are still doing lots of posting activities now. We're working on more precision posting now - like posting poker chips through a small slot (like a vending machine). Will share when I get some photos of that!

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Updates on Ryan

Ryan has not been attending school for a while now. He will go back to school after the Hari Raya / National Day holidays next week, so he has one more week of lounging about in the morning. He has been pretty busy these past six weeks. Here's a rundown of what he's been up to.


We kicked off his break with a short trip to KL. It was mainly to escape from the suffocating haze in Singapore at that time. Ryan had a ball of a time with his cousins and spent some time with my mother who was visiting from Australia.


When we got back, Ryan participated in two programmes conducted in Chinese at his pre-school. The first programme was an investigation into sound, and the second one was an investigation into movement. These were separate from the usual school programme so he got a different set of teachers. He also got a (mostly) different set of classmates - his group consisted of children from the Nursery 2 and the kindergarten classes. Only a few of the school children signed up for this programme, so his class was quite small. Each programme lasted two weeks and they were conducted back-to-back.


One day, when Richard was picking him up from the school, one of the English teachers asked whether Ryan attends another pre-school (in addition to the one he is at). Richard's reaction was - Huh? She explained that she noticed that Ryan can read and Ryan's Nursery 2 class doesn't teach reading at the level that Ryan is at. Richard explained that we taught him at home. Heh heh. We will soon reach the point when Ryan's ability to read is just a basic skill but for now, it is a superpower.


A couple of days later, and again when Richard was picking Ryan up, one of the Mandarin teachers asked, where did Ryan learn Hanyu Pinyin. Again, Richard went, huh? She said that she showed the students the flag of the USA with the Mandarin characters for USA and the Hanyu Pinyin for USA, and Ryan could read the Hanyu Pinyin. Richard said, we taught him phonics at home. To which she said, nope, this is more than that because he used the correct intonation. She was very insistent that he could read the Hanyu Pinyin. This one stumped us, because we have not taught him the Chinese words for USA, and we have not taught him Hanyu Pinyin. Some investigation is needed here!


Home learning at night has been a little sporadic because it depends on how tough a day he's had. I do try to build in more writing activities when we do stuff at home. In relation to Shichida activities, after Ryan's Makoto Club showcase and over this hectic period, we stopped giving him Shichida activities at home. We will pick the routine up again this weekend, because he has to do poem recitation and linking memory recitation in class on Sunday.


Also during this break from school, on 6 July 2013, Ryan made his violin debut at Yong Siew Toh Conservatory. It was a fabulous way to conclude his one year of violin. He performed splendidly.

The experience of preparing for the concert was a lesson for me. Ordinarily, we would be quite casual about Ryan's violin practice at home. Leading up to the concert however, we knew that he was not prepared and so we spent about a week practising seriously. As mentioned previously, I went hard on him a few times - two times, actually. Believe me, I knew. Even as I lost it, I knew I was being a monster. Ryan was an absolute angel - he bore my wrath and my impatience with no illwill and he soldiered on. We managed to end every practice session with some measure of progress only because he was patient with me. Each time I hurt him with my words, with my expressions, he forgave me. And my heart would break into a million pieces, my little man loves me that much. What an idiot I am, who's the adult here. I promised him, and myself, that I would be better, and I am determined to be.


So, Ryan has graduated from his one-year Suzuki violin group programme. The next step is to sign him up for individual lessons at the school. We haven't done that yet, for a few reasons. First, we are weighing a few options in terms of classes. I mentioned previously, that we are considering martial arts classes for Ryan. Also, Ryan has been asking to try out the piano, so we will look into that. The second reason is that he started his catwalk course last Saturday, which will go on for six lessons over six weeks. So we will let him complete that before we commit him to something else. Third reason is that we are considering getting a tutor from elsewhere, because the tutors at his school have limited availability. Anyone has a good piano/violin tutor to recommend?


Ryan has been pretty busy with auditions, castings, and shoots. In fact, he just had a shoot today for a print ad. As per his last job, he played the role of the brother in a family of four. The mother was Korean, the father was Chinese, the sister was Thai-Chinese, and everyone assumed Ryan was Japanese. Somehow, they looked like a family.

Over the past six weeks that Ryan has been out of school and up to his own stuff, he has been so busy that we didn't manage to meet up with his friends. There were a few days here and there when we tried to set something up but were unsuccessful. He has a lot of social interaction when he is on his modelling assignments, but he does miss his friends. Nevertheless, his guardian angel is always looking out for him - we bumped into his good pal Brayden twice! The first time was in Ngee Ann City and the second was when Brayden tracked us down at Pappa at River Valley Road.


Anyway, a funny story to share - yesterday evening, Ryan went for a wardrobe fitting for a shoot. Richard fetched him from his nanny and took him to the studio. After they were done there, they went to fetch Rachel. By that time, it was already about 8.30 pm and Ryan hadn't eaten anything since lunch. He didn't complain at all throughout and just followed Richard while Richard hustled and bustled about. When everyone finally settled down in the car, Ryan placed his hand on Richard's lap and looked him in the eye. "Look," he said calmly and seriously, which got Richard's full attention. "Let's go and get fries and nuggets."

That boy knows what's important.


We balance out Ryan's busy days with a lot of "nothing days" - when he has the whole day to do absolutely nothing. Ironically, it is these days when he doesn't want to rest. He's bored and wants to get something going so he keeps himself awake in order not to miss anything. His nanny's daughter, Caroline, takes him out to town some days. They went to see a movie (Monsters University) recently and she's been trying to persuade him to watch the one with the minions. Other times, they just walk around and enjoy the sights.

Ok, that's all. Quite a long post huh? This boy has been busy!

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